Trust is the foundation of all human relationships.

CONFIDENCE

Introduction:

My first question to address the issue is to know what is trust?

- Is to share our feelings and inner thoughts knowing you are not going to tell everyone and respecting confidentiality.

- Find support in knowing that others are not going to leave if we make a mistake.

- Is the ability to let others into our lives, together forming a relationship based on understanding, mutual respect and care, and help each other to grow and mature.

- In order to develop our confidence we need to trust people, to live in a healthy environment where there is no blame, accusations and bitterness, ie we use forgiveness, understanding and communication.

But after writing this I realize that Christopher with his illness instead of trusting the people around him, was isolated, did not want his or her care and protection to often angry to receive a caress. The disease that was suffered asperger. Asperger syndrome is a severe developmental disorder that has as main feature the difficulty in social interaction and finding interest, followed by a limited and unusual behavior. Many come to confuse this disease with autism not mind calling retaso high functioning autism. People with this disease have a solitary lifestyle behaviors are:

Not normally enjoy social contact.

Relate better with adults than with children of the same age.

Prefers to play alone.

Not interested in team sports.

Has difficulty identifying their feelings and have disproportionate emotional reactions.

Lacks empathy: intuitively understand the feelings of another person.

Has difficulty understanding the intentions of others.

No malice is sincere.

Socially is innocent, does not know how to act in a situation.

Sometimes their behavior is inappropriate and can seem challenging.

You can make offensive to others without realizing

It is absurd to think that after reading this book wants to develop the trust issue since Christopher was a person who found it difficult to relate to others, as well as trust them.

But what I can say is that I had a lot of confidence in what he wanted to achieve, such as solving the case of who killed the dog of Mrs. Shears (Wellington), find his mom in London, writing his own book and pass your exam with outstanding math.

Christopher took his life in many situations of trust and mistrust, which led him to overcome, not abandoned.

Making a comparison with her mother, she did not know and trust herself before the first conflict of not knowing how to resolve situations Christopher, the abandonment, rather than seek support from her husband or a professional.

Trust is the foundation of all human relationships. Nobody can walk side by side without being sure that he can trust, without trust is impossible to advance and grow. When we trust, we talk about transparency. To trust needed to know, so many of the conflicts that erupted between the parents of Christopher and Christopher with their parents is because they knew how to deal with the typical behaviors of the disease, did not know the disease, and because they had lost the trust each other, and knew not understand from the beginning.

With her father was an unhealthy relationship, and not trusted. Because even though I cared and worried that he lacks nothing hid reactions avoiding things that could potentially have Christopher with him. What the father was not to educate but indulge every whim.

So over time Christopher lost the confidence of his father and what he discovers (unconsciously or not) hid him during those years.

Many conflicts that arise at the partner or the relationship with their children is because you lose the trust and confidence between them, generating attitudes of mistrust and defraud. This is very serious because the person who has been

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