Be A Better Man

Be a Better Man

“Empty your mind, be formless. Shapeless, like water. If you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup. You put water into a bottle and it becomes the bottle. You put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now, water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.” – Bruce Lee

With that phrase I’m going to give you five tips, just 5 tips to be a better man:

1. You have got to trust yourself. It may seem loo like a “cliché” but I think it’s the most important part for you to start being a better man. Trusting yourself means that you start to make your own decisions. You can’t go on living on someone else’s decision of life, so make your own path by making your own decisions. You know you better than anyone else, a phrase that gets you πthinking, “do I know me at all?” People often rely on someone else and let other make them feel less when you know, maybe it’s the first thought to pop into your mind, or maybe its in the deepest spot of your mind, but everyone knows that what others tell you about yourself is a lie. People may sometimes feel less and end up going really often to a shrink, then they get depressive, all because they didn’t trust themselves.

2. Learn from your mistakes. What is the difference between an animal and a human? That the animal once made a mistake he doesn’t do it again. For example if a lion tries to hunt a buffalo but this buffalo fights back hurting the lion, the lion will never attack that herd again. On the other hand the human being has had two world wars both leaving a total sum of approximately 65,000,000 deaths both soldiers and civilians. Imagine where we would be if one of the wars had never happened. That’s a big IF. If you accept a mistake you would accept yourself being wrong and don’t show that kind of weakness to other people because remember, everything in life happens for a reason, Mistakes teach you something, treat every mistake you made as a lesson to make you a better person.

3. Help other people. How can someone be a better person if they only think about themselves? To be a better person you have got to start thinking on others. Start small help your neighbor, your brother you haven’t seen in a long time, your friend, help the old lady you always see to carry her groceries home or even to cross the street. Every little detail counts and little details like that make you a better person

4. Don’t let others make you feel less. Everyone is a son of god. We are all brothers and sisters, so why do we discriminate others or let other people discriminate us? We are unique. There isn’t another one like me. They may be look-alikes or with similar voice or body figure, but there is only one you and one me. So the next time someone tries to make you feel less, ignore him or her and move on, that will make you a better man.

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