Love ? Sex ? Or science?

"Lovers" experience a series of intense feelings, such as intrusive thoughts, emotional dependence and increased energy, although these feelings can be limited to the early phases of relationship.

The first three months of infatuation without considering processes of blindness because you do not see the defects of the person because of what that emotion creates you the fact of being with a person that catches your attention or that interest you.

Produces you in the brain at the height of the hypothalamus secrete oxytocin that is a natural drug in the bargain, can be compared to Heroin or cocaine has exactly the same what makes you can not tell between the real and the perspective that you think to carry out.

From the fourth and fifth month of establishing a relationship whit a person far from the brain will continue to segregate this substance at then neuronal level, the oxytocin you already correlate whit the person emotional way and you become codependent, what makes you precisely depend on that produces a physical as well as mental discomfort, because you need that person which means anxiety disorder ,which you can no longer be without the person to be well.

There are two instincts in love, sexual attraction and "attachment". Adult attachment is as summed, to work with the same principles as those of a child with his or her mother or her father or both.

According to Freud, the Stages of falling in love are the feelings that with a certain tenderness respond to sexual emotions that are then inhibited or replaced by asexuals.

It is the moment when one person is dazzled by another, he feels that he possesses it and idealizes it.

Empathy is recognized by the other. The beloved person is placed in the ideal of the self, thus breaking with the narcissistic self for a projection of his being in the other.

Just as that person can be your salvation can also be your illness.

If the couple does not separate and consolidate can be a good time for the thoughts to fall in love so that love comes back to arise as at the beginning.

Love is still the ghost. Relationships are no longer justified by the love one has for the other person; on the contrary, as we have seen, they are only justified in material terms, personal status, individuality.

In the Art of Love, Erich Fromm states with certainty that love at the end is admiration for the other. But the admiration that dominates at this moment is no longer the one that has to do with the intelligence, the sensitivity, of the other person, its humanistic or spiritual vocation, but is justified in the material.

Love, understood as the maximum feeling that a person can have, is suppressed and substituted for reasons of status and acceptance, for the money that apparently generates comfort and stability,

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