What is Bullying?

What is Bullying?

Bullying is a pattern of aggressive behaviour meant to hurt or cause discomfort to another person. Bullies always have more power than victims. Their power comes from physical size, strength, status, and support within the peer group.

There are three types of bullying:

1. Physical: a person is harmed or their property damaged

Some examples are:

o slapping, hitting, pinching, punching, kicking

o locking in a confined space

o unwelcome touching

o extortion

2. Verbal: a person’s feelings are hurt through insults and name-calling

Some examples are:

o name-calling

o unwelcome teasing

o taunting

o spreading rumours, gossiping

o racist or homophobic comments

3. Social: a person is shunned or excluded from groups and events.

Some examples are:

o excluding from a group

o threatening or insulting graffiti

o threatening notes, letters, emails, telephone calls

o threatening words, actions or weapons

Bullying may be obvious or hidden. Children who are being bullied...or are bullying others may:

• complain of being poorly treated

• change their behaviour (for example, sleeplessness, loss of appetite, angry outbursts, being sick in the morning, become more aggressive towards siblings)

• be unwilling to leave the house, change their route to school, or skip school

• come home with torn clothes, unexplained bruises, new clothes or other items, or money not accounted for

• talk about responding to others in a way that may result in the school taking disciplinary action

• start doing poorly in school

The terms harassment and intimidation are sometimes used when referring to bullying situations involving junior and senior high students.

Harassment is any behaviour or comment that is hurtful, degrading, humiliating or offensive to another person.

Intimidation is the act of causing fear in order to force or influence someone to do, or not to do, something.

Some examples of harassment and intimidation:

• name-calling

• unwelcome teasing

• locking in a confined space

• racist or homophobic slurs

• unwelcome touching

• threatening notes, letters, e-mails

• threatening words, actions or weapons

• taunting

• excluding from a group

• spreading rumours

• threatening or insulting graffiti

• stalking

• extortion

Definitions

Bullying may be defined as the activity of repeated, aggressive behavior intended to hurt another person, physically or mentally. Bullying is characterized by an individual behaving in a certain way to gain power over another person.

Norwegian researcher Dan Olweus says bullying occurs when a person is:

‘Exposed, repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the part of one or more other persons'. He says negative actions occur 'when a person intentionally inflicts injury or discomfort upon another person, through physical contact, through words or in other ways.

Etymology

The word "bully" was first used in the 1530s meaning "sweetheart", applied to either sex, from the Dutch boel "lover, brother", probably diminutive of Middle High German buole "brother", of uncertain origin (compare with the German buhle "lover"). The meaning deteriorated through the 17th century through "fine fellow", "blusterer", to "harasser of the weak". This may have been as a connecting sense between "lover" and "ruffian" as in "protector of a prostitute", which was one sense of "bully" (though not specifically attested until 1706). The verb "to bully" is first attested in 1710.

History

High-level forms of violence such as assault and murder usually receive most media attention, but lower-level forms of violence such as bullying have only by the 2000s started to be addressed by researchers, parents and guardians, and authority figures. It is only in recent years that bullying has been recognised and recorded as a separate and distinct offence, but there have been well documented cases that have been recorded over the centuries. Virginia Woolf considered fascism to be a form of bullying, and wrote of Hitler and the Nazis in 1934 as "these brutal bullies".

Anti-bullying movement

In the 2000s and 2010s, a cultural movement against bullying gained popularity in the English-speaking world. The first National Bullying Prevention Week was conceived of in Canada in 2000 by Canadian educator and anti-bullying activist Bill Belsey. The charity Act Against Bullying was formed in the UK in 2003. In 2006, National Bullying Prevention Month was declared in the United States. The Suicide of Phoebe Prince in 2010 brought attention to the issue in Massachusetts, and sparked reforms in state education. The It Gets Better Project was started in 2010 to combat gay teen suicides, and Lady Gaga announced the Born This Way Foundation in partnership with Harvard's Berkman Center for Internet & Society in 2011.

A 2012 paper from the Berkman Center, "An Overview of State Anti-Bullying Legislation and Other Related Laws," notes that, as of January 2012, 48 U.S. states

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